“There are only four kinds of people in the world — those who have been caregivers, those who are currently caregivers, those who will be caregivers, and those who will need caregivers.”
— Rosalynn Carter, Former First Lady of the United States
Crisis or Choice?
Most people think “aging in place”is a long-term plan built over time. For most families it is not the plan at all - it’s a sudden scramble. A fall, a hospital stay, a change in memory or mobility - and suddenly, a loved one can’t go home without changes.
“We didn’t know what we needed until we were in it,” one daughter said. “then it was all-hands-on-deck!”
Situational aging in place is real - and common. When staying put becomes a matter of urgency, the right guidance can make all the difference.
Downsizing, Upsizing, or Right-Sizing?
When you can’t delay the decision, you have to make the right move - literally. Some families downsize to simplify. Others upsize to make room for live in help or multi-generational living. Sometime, it’s about right-sizing - finding the space that fits now, not what fit before.
“We need a home without stairs, but big enough for my dad, the kids, and a nurse. We weren’t just moving - we were rethinking how we live together.”
This kind of transition isn’t just about square footage, its about functionality, support, and emotional peace.
